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State Family Law Advisory Committee (SFLAC) Guidelines During COVID-19

SFLAC has issued guidelines to parents sharing custody or parenting time during COVID-19. They can by found by clicking here. As always, consult an attorney for more specific advice related to your case. 

CARES Stimulus Check FAQ

The IRS is in the process of developing procedure for the issuance of stimulus payments as required under the CARES Act.  The procedures are evolving and the information below is based on what is known as of this date.  As always, it is best to check with your attorney for more specific questions.

New Protective Order for Victims

As of January 1, 2014, we have a new tool to protect victims of sexual assault called a Sexual Assault Protective Order or "SAPO" for short. We still have Family Abuse Protective Act restraining orders ("FAPAs") and a Stalking Protective Orders ("SPOs"). However, these Orders did not protect a victim that had a one-time encounter with a perpetrator. The FAPA restraining order requires a "relationship" between the parties and a SPO requires at least two incidences of conduct. The SAPO is meant to protect the people who fell through the gaps between these two orders.

Aaby Family Law News

Many exciting things are taking place at Aaby Family Law.  First, we are moving! Our new office is located at 8705 SW Nimbus Avenue, Suite 230, Beaverton, OR 97008.  The building is Creekside Five inside the Creekside Corporate Park.  While we will miss our old location, our firm continues to grow and our current space can no longer accomodate our needs.  The new office overlooks the Fanno Creek wetlands area and is still located conveniently off of Highway 217. While the new office is clearly nicer and larger, it still maintains the down to earth and unpretentious atmosphere of our old space.  We anticipate the move will take place the last weekend of March with us up and running in the new space by April 1, 2014. 

Parenting Schedules

Parents frequently consult with me for help in creating a parenting schedule. A parenting schedule is simply a written summary of how much time each child will spend with each parent and how the parents will divide between them the decision-making authority related to the children. While the concept of a parenting schedule is simple, arriving at a parenting schedule that both parents can agree upon is anything but simple.

Insulating Kids from Divorce

WebMD has a very good article on mistakes divorcing parents make when it comes to their children. While the majority of people going through divorce make their kids mental well-being their number one priority, it pointed out times when very well intentioned parents may be unintentionally causing damage.  I liked the last section where the article suggested empowering the children with a "safe signal" such as quietly raising their hand when a parent is openly critizing their ex.  The parent would agree to stop talking immediately and take their own time-out.  See the article here:   Mistakes Divorced Parents Make

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